| Our willing commitment reflects our ability to realise the potential
of our needs in a particular situation; grudging commitment indicates we
find that situation unsatisfying and stressful. Our mood changes are an
unerring and constant barometer to reflect our wellbeing or distress at
any one moment in a particular place
Enfolded within each need is a parallel hypothesis. e.g. confidence reflects the measure with which we understand our experience; the lack of it reflects the extent to which we don't understand our world. |
| Our needs are dynamic and continuous; when we're in good fettle we realise the potential of several needs synergically (all at once) e.g. when we understand (what's bothering us) our sense of identity and of self esteem is enhanced and we feel secure. |
| Fundamental needs are body functions. Just as we eat and digest our own food so we need to understand what bothers us etc; so we realise the potential of all our needs - and become human. |
| We cannot do nothing about our needs; e.g. we must breathe yet we suffocate in smoke laden air. If we can't understand what's happening in a difficult situation we suffer if we snatch at an easy answer. So we experience qualified satisfaction, a system of metaphorical allergies. |
| Our willing commitment in a particular situation reflects how well
we are able to realise the potential of our needs in it; sore feelings
or grudging commitment tell us we find that situation unsatisfying and
stressful. Our mood changes are an unerring and constant barometer to reflect
our wellbeing or distress at any one moment.
Enfolded within each need is a parallel hypothesis. Confidence reflects
the measure with which we understand our experience, the lack of which
is the extent to which we cannot understand our world.
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| If having lived or worked with someone we can say he is a loving
person this is because in our experience he generates affection; i.e. he
realises the potential of his need of affection.
This is our account of being with him; with others he may not realise that potential and they will see = experience him differently. There is a similar equation for all the fundamental needs. And vice versa so the person we find floundering is impoverished; yet in another situation he may be able to realise more of the potential of his needs, and flourish. Look at the stress routine to glimpse how any of us behave in what is to us a troublesome situation; it's the same argument but inside out. |
| Alas there is a untested general assumption that knowledge (of almost anything) correlates to intelligence and management capability and potential above average earnings. Yet realising the potential of our fundamental needs to bring a willing commitment to life is not assumed as being worthy of testing. |
| We can judge our internal state thru an awareness of losing the willing commitmen that R9N brings...not bring attaneiton to what we're doing...being bored etc then we realise we're moving into 4q which we may be ok if we are observers BUT if we are players in that situation suggests stress |
| Confidence (another hypothesis) = the measure
with which we understand our world and experience, the lack of which is
the extent to which we suffer 4q so we cannot enjoy that confidence in
other than an environment of synegric satisfaction;
How, e.g. could we understand is a hostile environment, one in hwich we find ourselves being interrogated, or put down or kept subservient? |
| We're in trouble when we invest too much in a situation on the basis
that our energetic commitment will make things right; and it does not.
In such a situation there is always a sense of qualified satisfaction of our needs; yet to take those qualifying factors, what we feel, into account is to risk losing what seems like everything. Paradoxically when we bite the bullet we survive to find ourselves in what is, in effect, a reasoning situation in which we can speak straight and realise the potential of our fundamental needs; the bonus is that when anyone in that situation experiences qualified satisfaction he will be more able to speak of how he feels, and the system becomes self righting. |