Knowing our feelings are what we understand pre-empts worry since
we are never out of our depth; we can see this as negative feedback
so we are not at the mercy of wild impulses
seductions or shortcuts. |
| Such confidence comes with realising the potential of our fundamental
needs and sensing trouble before it threatens our
wellbeing. Trouble happens when we don't differentiate friends from not-friends.
We can fight or flight but not flirt with trouble, nor make allowances
for it or explain it as well meant. Trouble is bad news and designed
to keep a spurious integrity going, and us in our subservient place. |
| Living and working in viable environments with those who share our
sense of purpose we can encourage others to risk it
and join in. |
With friends we can come clean and are free to respond as we deem
we can best realise the potential of our fundamental needs; else
we
are inhibited, emotionally constipated |
Operating on negative feedback we can't make things happen as if
by magic; nor do we waste our intelligence wondering what sort of
impression we're making on the spectators. |
| Jack Carter etc maybe the symmetry of a social system itself is essentially
nfb so we can't beat the system - it will gets its own back, even burn
itself out ultimately. |
| Sorefeelings transfer slow subject to nfb .. drag
paradoxically our fear of intimacy and awareness of threat to beliefs and
mebos |
| Whereas negative feedback is an engineering
phrase we find it coming as a sort of wisdom |
| Being disabled we are governed by a sort of negative feedback so
we can't move faster (or whatever) than we can; and we can be apprentices
for life and share this confidence with those who want to know. |
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