| If we are clumsy the chances are that we don't understand either the situation or our ineptitude in it; paradoxically we are stressed whilst we have the potential to reason our way through whatever seems to 'make' us awkward. |
| Our problem solving resourcefulness, our ability to see through
what we can't understand, is 'located' (per
Antonio Damasio's Descartes Error) in the anterior
cingulate cortex; 'to' it we bring three facets of our experience of what
we can't understand so that we focus on 'the problem' bringing our
feelings and relevent working memory.
It's not magic - it's reasoning that 'makes' us survivors; it's simply
a matter of seeing what we can't understand in another way, and evolving
a different strategy to deal with the 'problem'.
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| To panic scream or shout suggests we are out
of our depth and not not able to focus on 'the problem' nor
bring our relevent working memory nor our feelings to bear.
In that state we are ineffective, wasteful and
stupid.
To scream or shout advertises our sense of inadequacy, that we're
not up to it, whatever it is. To make matters worse those who are affected
by our panic are themselves paralysed by not knowing what they feel in
such confusion and, unable to help themselves and reason their way through,
are drawn into the mess.
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| Note: if we are fatigued and debilitated in a situation the chances
are that someone is screaming though we may not
hear it.
Any situation in which we don't know what we feel is dangerous; if we choose to stay we can be intelligent and identify which qualifier is bugging us, else with nomadic and migratory energy we can get out of it, vanish asap. |
When we’re stressed we flip/panic cos in that moment we’re not in control
of ourselves and cannot see any other way…so we deny our own need of social
support
Stressed we blunder through without reference to our own better judgement
And cannot R9N
Jenny to Belinda 2 sorts of people = 4Q simplistic which would
have thrown me if I had not seen what was happening