We experience qualified satisfaction of our needs when we . .  

. . . snatch at easy answers, simple remedies, quacks and quick fixes, miracles and mysteries.
admit poverty (not through laziness) not having learned to survive
but learned – by default - to short cut this and get away with it
= lack of confidence is seen as clever q3 or q4

snatch at easy answers

Phoney advice…ask bread and give him a stone…is it a tool
why do we persist on training kids to act as though they can over look the social nature of knowledge…only for them to to be left high and dry without knowing it hence lack of confidence = n8 e.g Rob saying no, Rowena with her radical education still lack n8  e,g, Mike Boice, Gerry doing PhD as an end in itself .. Pat to convice herself that she is ok…not wasted her life
+ idea from Robin re child development that overlooks the ToM = social nature of knowledge c.f. manners child needs to participate so with acknowledge the other anyway
## academics in training
so what of social situations in which we are inhibited, uneconomic? = 4q