Don't label a
situation morbid on the basis of another's say so.
It's essential to realise when we are
in trouble lest we stay too long in what is, to us, a morbid situation.
How others see the 'same' situation is their business, not ours.
Be wary, read
the signs and don't get seduced into going where you may well be in trouble.
If you must go do so with eyes in the back of your head and be wary; trust
your own judgement and feelings and sense of what's right for you.
Knowing
our own mind we don't get seduced by arguments that we can try harder or
do better.
